You choose!

Writer- Marize Hayes

As the dust and the land of beauty struck me with it's imperfection I realised how painful the crime and poverty in South Africa is. It's like being killed, yet I'm still alive. My words and very few emotion can't even work together this very morning. Why are we so blind for our own mistakes! Why can't we just realise how important respect and living in peace is!

Yesterday brought me a destination to today and tomorrow, well to tomorrow will be my journey towards the next day! When will we stop living only to survive. We have to live for so much more... so why is it that everything I say is in contras towards this world! I never knew "living the dream" goes together with hating the people, making money and being filthy rich!
If that is what "living the dream" is to you, then maybe you need a new dream! Then maybe you have to understand that dreams may stay dreams, and reality is that your dream is not suitable in this world because you see in the end we are not just part of this world to survive, we are here to create, cherish, apply, borrow, care, be cared for, change, take chance and to be valued by God.
You are a precious person, so love yourself.
You are an example to many, so live to change lives.
You are an extraordinary human being, so take chances.

Just become the beauty of being YOURSELF because in the end it's not about you, but because of you that this world is what it will become and you have the coin in your hand! It's either going to be heads or tails.

Negative or positive?
I Choose POSITIVE while I now it is not the easiest decision to make but for my country I WILL!

Make your choice...

Dear world guest

Writer- Marize Hayes

I woke up this morning and as the sun bloomed in my room I was bombard by this question coming from nowhere.Why do we want peace but we still give life the opportunity to choose whether it will be approved or disapproved?

We live in a world full of questions, trafficking, hatred, different believe structures, crime, politics, racial issues and people with low self esteem. Why?
When will we ever give ourselves a chance in life to stand for what is right. To live in peace with one another, to love and cherish what God gave us. Here's the thing...We were not born to create conflict and hate just because we can. It doesn't matter from where you are, it's about who you are that will change this world! It's about being positive and work with the negative so that you can be the change this world needs. We need you to be an example so that the world will follow you.

You see, sometimes in life we miss the point about why we are who we are. You get to chose who you want to be and making the right decision is not always easy but it's possible.
We want to bring peace to this world and so many "famous ones" once stood strong to change this world, but then they fall back again because they gave up in what they believe in. They leveled the needs and wants this world could give them. How many times have I heard the answer to the following question. "Why do you want to be, (miss world, miss universe, miss Earth....?" Because I want peace for this world, and I believe I can do it! So, when are you starting to live and create space for peace in this world!?

We have to stop talking and start doing, start living, changing, inspiring, motivating, creating  and bring peace! The best place to start is with yourself...

So, dear guest of this world

I know it's not that easy, but it is possible. I realize that life is not going to change because we want it to, life is going to change because God wants us to grow and develop the beauty of His Kingdom.
 You are worthy of it all. get yourself out there and take a chance. It's better to try and be part of something incredible than to sit and believe.. You actually have to DO and HELP!

So, as the night blew a fairly well known comment on my deepest desires, I realized that this world is a better place than we could ever imagine...

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A princess you are my dearly beloved prostitute friend

Writer-Marize Hayes

So today I bought myself a crown and as life gave me the opportunity to be who I want to be I decided to be the best princess I can be. I stared at the rain drops forming a pool of water.
I had a cup of tea and then I started...

Good day ladies and gentlemen

Today as I got the honor to be princess, I firmly believe you don't have any excuse but to join me in my realistic fairytale of beauty. You get to choose who you want to be as long as you stay true to yourself. I've learned that being gorgeous is not about the clothes you wear or the shoes you have on, it's about being yourself and loving yourself in every possible way.

I would like to share a story as it is part of testifying my way of living to Love.
One day, not so long ago I sat next to a woman and she happened to be a prostitute. It happened so that I bought a coke for myself and for this lovely lady sitting next me on a public chair in 'n small town called, Swellendam. The two of us stared at the cars that drove by and the people passing us without any smiles or thought of love. Then all of a sudden she said one thing to me.."I would like to meet a princess one day"
My words struggled to reach her ears as the tears made my heart warm... I couldn't utter a word. I walked away without saying anything...We shared tears as we also drank our cokes together but that was it. As I walked into my house that night I cried and cried and cried...

Today, one of my desires is to meet up with this woman again just to tell her, SHE IS THE PRINCESS! The thing is, life took so much from her that she can not think of herself as a princess, do we ever see ourselves as beautiful and as perfect as God wants us to be?
Why don't we just feel like a princess FOREVER! Guess what...You are unique, you are kind, you are gentle, you are special and you are loved! That pretty much makes you a princess, God's little princess. He loves you, and He need you to know it!

I'm going to be a princess for the rest of my life, just because I want to serve and be served, I want to love, help, make dreams come true and feed the ones in need. I want to sit next to prostitutes and tell them how special they are. I want to tell raped girls that YOU ARE STILL LOVED AND BEAUTIFUL! I want to give hope to the hopeless and peace to the restless, I am going to!

The day you were born, God gave life to His princess and somewhere else He decided to give life to a prince who will love and cherish you. Now, I don't now if you already met your prince but you will as long as you stay true to yourself and love yourself as much as God love you! Remember being a princess is not always about wearing the crown, it's about being worthy of so much more, and YOU ARE!

So, dearly beloved, as I stared at the raindrops forming a puddle of wonder, I realized with every drop of your beauty at the end you will realize how amazingly stunning you are with all your flaws.



[You can go check out and vote for His little princess or enter yourself, because you are beautiful in all your ways."- (http://voorbladgesig.sarie.com/entries/marize-hayes/ )]
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South Africa, I'll stand for you

Writer - Marize Hayes

Just as the moon got caught up in life I realized how much I miss the days when I could run around in the streets late at night and visiting my friends across the road without any fear of being "taken"  .. I found perfection in all the imperfect ways. Where there is a will, there is a way. I stumbled and I fell but every time I stand back up and I know, there is a bigger plan than I can ever imagine.

My dearly beloved

Should I say life is a fairly well known Monopoly game or do you rather prefer I call it my territory. I have this dream, this amazing plan and vision for South Africa, but it flows from love and ambition. I fell in love with the beauty of my country. I'm not scared so I will not stand back and watch how this precious  light house in my life is ruined by mankind. There is no way that crime and cruelty will rule South Africa! There for I am ready to stand up for what I believe in. 

Do you know that the day you were born, someone very special gave birth to a miracle. A dream became true the day YOU WERE BORN! Don't dim your light houses light, because the people in this world need you to lead them to the right direction. They need to now where their little dream can be accomplished and that you are there for them no matter what. Life will knock you down but it's still your decision if you are going to get back up and fight for what you believe in or are you going to stay grounded for the rest of your life! When I say grounded i mean... "Are you going to let life punish you and put you in a corner because you tried something new, or because you wanted to believe in something God gave you with compassion to create, build and keep sustainable?"

Here's the thing... I will not back down or sit and watch how time takes part in a role while reality is not part of some sort of a play developed by mankind. I will face the restless and broken, I will bring light where there seem to be no direction and I will testify about the things I believe in.

Therefor, I believe in love, I believe in change and to create a journey. I take chances and bring hope to those in need. My greatest desire is not to fail nor to give up, but my greatest desire is for you to understand life as it is and protect it, as it must still become for what it was created to be.

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Jou kanker glimlag

Afrikaanse skrywer- Marize Hayes

Dan sien ek die donker kringe waarmee jou oe praat. Die min hare wat vir my reeds ietsie van jou se. Ek luister na die diep gesprekke wat jy wil deel, maar jou woorde is niks minder as stof. Min nog meer sal my liefde kan terug staan vir jou gebroke mense taal. 

Liefste vrou

Ek bewonder jou. Ek kyk op na jou seer en ongemak. Ek voel my vroulikheid word deel van jou en dan, dan is ons sinne wat in tale vertolk word en ewe skielik is ek in kontak met jou. Met jou emosies. Jy voel minder as niks en jy wil net vasgehou, lief gehe en waardeer word. Niemand mag 'n skewe woord praat nie en jy wil stil wees en nie baie praat nie. Jy wil jouself gaan vind en nuut, alles oor begin. Jou eie bladsy, skoon met kleurvolle penne inkleur en iets skets wat net jy sal verstaan, want jy voel leeg en hoop was al lankal buite jou woordeskat.

Sal jy met jou kanker glimlag weer vrede in my hart kom spreek en sal jy weer 'n pasient van liefde kan wees. Sal jou menswees weer heel kan word en sal jy lag, net om die lewe 'n tweede kans te gee... My kanker liefdes vrou, sal jy omgee as ek vra dat jou woorde nie so min moet raak en sal jy "okay" wees daarmee as ek se, dat ek jou hart bewonder en innerlik diep vir altyd lief sal he. 

Tot dan hoop ek jy word heel, stukkie vir stukkie van binne, sodat jou glimlag my weer stories van lank lank gelede kan vertel...